Author: shebaempowers

There’s a common mindset that asks, “What can others do for me?” But I want to challenge you to flip that question—what can YOU give? What do you have in your hands, your heart, and your life that can bless someone else? The truth is, generosity is more than an act—it’s a lifestyle. And when […]

Picture this: two families decide to build their dream homes. One hires the best contractors, uses high-quality materials, and takes time to ensure a solid foundation. The other rushes the process, cutting corners with cheap materials and ignoring the warning signs of a weak foundation. At first, both houses look great—but when a storm hits, […]

The Benefits of Relationships vs. The Illusion of Entitlement Relationships are one of the greatest gifts we experience in life. Whether it’s family, friendships, mentorships, or romantic partnerships, meaningful relationships add depth, joy, and support to our journey. However, there is a fine line between appreciating the benefits of relationships and falling into the trap […]

A hallmark of effective leadership is the ability to challenge one’s perceptions—including thoughts, feelings, and assumptions—and to be receptive to correction. This quality is not just a marker of personal growth but also a gateway to deeper understanding, authentic connections, and transformative change. In a recent discussion, I found myself engaging with someone who held […]

Wisdom is a transferable skill—a gift that keeps on giving. It transcends time, generations, and situations, becoming a lifeline when knowledge alone is not enough. Recently, I found myself faced with a situation that, admittedly, I wasn’t completely equipped to navigate. The details shared with me were intricate and complex. As I sat reflecting, seeking […]

Recently, I learned of a family friend who passed away alone in his apartment, only discovered days after he went missing. Some said they hadn’t spoken to him in over a week. The news hit me like a ton of bricks. But my initial response? Gratitude. Now, before you jump to conclusions, let me explain. […]

As we navigate life, it’s easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of daily routines. We often forget to pause and reflect on our actions and choices. Today, let’s explore a thought-provoking question: If your future self has to rely on what you’re doing now, would it be enough? The Power of […]

The Abundance of God’s Provision A Lighthearted Revelation Recently, during a heartfelt discussion with my mom, she shared a simple yet profound statement: “God can afford everything!” At first, I chuckled at the casualness of it, but as I reflected, it resonated deeply with me. This statement encapsulates a powerful truth that many of us […]

  Recently I had a conversation with someone who made an interesting comment about being blessed. The person said, “Hopefully, the Lord blesses me so that I am able to do a few things.” Although I understood the sentiment, the God-presence in me, wanted to be sure to use this as a teachable moment. I […]